Once you’ve gotten ahold of using a basic vibrator such as a bullet, you’re ready to move on and see what else is out there. Look no further than a rabbit vibrator.
There’s a reason that they’re incredibly popular and even featured prominently in an entire episode of Sex and the City. Designed for dual stimulation, vagina and clitoris, it’s going to knock your socks off.
Pick a winner
The best way to use a rabbit vibrator is to start with the best one for you.
The general idea is that while your basic vibrator has just a shaft that vibrates, the rabbit adds little bunny ears that nestle next to your clit at the same time. Instead of picking either internal or external stimulation, you get both!
Size Matters
When it comes time to get your rabbit vibrator, start first with the size of the insertable part of the vibrator. Girth and length is the ideal first consideration because if you can’t get it in, nothing else is going to matter.
The majority of the rabbit-style vibrators out there fall in the 1.25-inch to 1.5-inch circumference range.
The available range is vast at 1 inch up to 2.5 inches in circumference. If you already have a vibrator that you’re particularly delighted by, it’s a natural choice – go with what works and match the size.
Without a frame of reference, you’re safe to pick either 1.25 or 1.5 inches.
For length, most rabbit vibrators are 4 to 5 inches in length for the insertable part. If you aren’t used to it and don’t value something ramming you in the cervix, don’t go longer than 6 inches.
They do come quite a bit shorter, but I don’t recommend it unless you’re going to be using it with a partner which we’ll dive into later.
Twists and Turns
The next thing that you should weigh is what kind of stimulation you want from your rabbit vibrator. There are quite a few bells and whistles in more modern-day rabbits.
Minimally, there should be multiple strengths and speeds in your options, so anything beyond this is hardly worth mentioning. The classic rabbit vibrator had a rotating shaft with beads that would ideally stimulate your G-spot. You see that less in the higher end or newer rabbit vibrators.
If you’re the type to see a mechanical bull and have the overwhelming urge to hop on, this feature might be for you. In my opinion, it’s unnecessary.
What does make a difference is the shape of the shaft and what it will naturally stimulate as a result. For example, there are several options out there that include a bend that hits the G-spot by design.
Looking for something more discreet? Check out my article on the Best Discreet Vibrators.
Push it… real good
One of the more popular features on the market is thrusting in the shaft. These models are generally somewhat ribbed to allow it to have that thrusting motion, so the sensations are twofold and quite welcome.
Once you consider the thrusting, vibrating, and clitoral stimulation all together, KA-BOOM!
They do what now?
When you’re shopping for your rabbit vibrator, you’re going to notice that features are somewhat unlimited.
My go to store is always LoveHoney. They always have a great selection of non-porous, safe options.
Waterproof rabbit vibrators are mundane when compared to the options available.
If intensity is what you’re after, pick a rabbit vibrator that features a suction that feels like oral. Powerful stimulation like this makes these fan favorites.
If you’re the type who is crippled by a fear of missing out and want everything, you’re going to want to look into rabbit vibrators with triple stimulation.
Anal stimulation, vaginal, and clitoral stimulation all at once certainly has the potential to give you some of the most intense orgasms of your life.
You just have to be willing to give it a shot. Even better, most of them have speed controls that are independent of one another.
The right ingredients
You’re going to find that there’s quite a variety of materials available when you’re shopping for your rabbit vibrator.
One thing to absolutely avoid is phthalates, a known carcinogen, and endocrine disruptor. It’s a chemical typically found in sex toys to make them more flexible. Keep an eye out to make sure yours is phthalate-free.
You might see toys out there that are made from a flexible jelly material that is quite popular in rabbit vibrators.
Those jelly vibrators are typically the ones that people usually picture when you say “rabbit vibrator.” The problem is, they’re generally full of phthalates. They’re also porous and tend to trap bacteria, even if you go out of your way to keep it clean.
Most rabbit vibrators tend to be one of two materials, plastic or silicone.
In fact, most sex toys, in general, tend to be plastic or silicone. This plastic is sometimes called ABS (acrylonitrile butadiene styrene).
It’s a popular material because it’s moldable into any shape but then hardens into a non-porous surface that’s easy to keep clean. To give you an idea of its versatility, it’s what LEGO is made of!
The ultimate in rabbit vibrator material is silicone. It’s hard and non-porous but still feels silky. It’s the material of choice for higher-end rabbit vibrators because of its luxurious feel.
Unlock the potential
One thing to keep in mind is the importance of lube. It doesn’t matter how you’re using your rabbit vibrator, it’s going to feel better with lube.
Water-based lubes are the gold standard for lube and provide a slick feeling that washes off easily without being sticky and won’t damage the toys you buy.
Ace it
The best way to use a rabbit vibrator on your own is to pick somewhere comfortable to explore and let go. Whether nestled in bed or in the bath, let go and relax.
Insert the toy in and line up the rabbit, or the part that stimulates your clit, to where it feels best.
If you like direct stimulation, the type that has a flat tip might be best for you. If you like indirect stimulation best, the classic bunny ears kind would be ideal for you.
Better together
Rabbit vibrators are exceptional when masturbating. They’re also terrific with a partner. If your partner takes over for you and uses your rabbit vibrator on you, you’ll be able to let go and let your orgasm free.
Many of the quality high end rabbits available today are designed to be worn during intercourse. The shaft inserted into your vagina is smaller and shorter than conventional rabbits leaving plenty of room for your partner.
You get the sensation of the rabbit and the vibrating pleasure to your clitoris while making love.
Even better, select a remote-controlled rabbit and hand the reins over to your partner. You get to leave your orgasmic sensations to your partner, letting them have some fun with you while you’re having fun together.
If you’re the type that struggles with orgasms with vaginal penetration alone but find bullet vibrators awkward, this could be your golden ticket.
Have fun, everyone!